This is not a complaint! Just an observation.

When a member posts a review of a model's card, think about what you are saying in the review.

I see way too many reviews that say...or at least "imply"...things like, "Don't waste your money! Worst card I ever bought! She's Ugly! She's too skinny! She's too fat! Her breasts are too small! Too large!"

Review the card for the CONTENT of the card, and don't make a personal attack against the model. It's fine to make a judgement about her pole dancing skills, or mannerisms pertaining to the performance, or clothing..."Not skillful using the pole"..."Seems nervous"..."Jerky movements and not comfortable", "Outfit seems wrong for her", etc. Those are fine.

But just because you may not find her attractive, or you don't like petite women with small breasts, or robust women with silicon-enhanced attributes, doesn't mean the woman's card isn't worth buying. Everybody has their OWN preferences, likes, and dislikes about the opposite sex (or same sex if that is your preference).

The models aren't judging YOUR physical attributes as a customer. Let's show them the same level of respect in the model's card reviews.

I agree about ***** comments about the models. But is not just because being polite is about being a gentleman. Is about the tone of the community, and name calling is a no-no in every section of the site.

Honestly, the comments are the customer's opinions. There is no guide or any imposition to write a short or wordy comment, as long as is not just nonsense or rudeness is all good.

And I disagree about your last comment about the judgment. All people, in all the entertainment business, not just porn, is subject to critics about any single aspect, cause they became public and being criticized is a part of their job. And nobody replies to a critic from the audience telling the audience: lets see what you can do or how do you look or shut up. That just doesn't works like that anywhere. And we are not getting paid to strip for the models, they don't have any say about us. We do pay for watching them, so we have all the right to express our opinions, good or bad, in a respectful way and mainly for the benefit of our fellow users.

I agree with CV and come from pretty much the same perspective.

But to re-enforce, if there are rude or disrespectful comments then that will be reported to Totem.

Thanks for speaking up about this, FalconAF. I agree with you that there is a widespread lack of respect for models not measuring up to individual tastes or for fellow members who like those models. I believe your comments reflect a good mindset.

I agree a little bit with Oquijan, however. I think that a model's body (or, actually, the viewing of said body) is part of what she is offering to us for our enjoyment. Therefore, her body AND her performance is exactly what we should comment on. That being said, there should be respect and tact in the way we say it. Not only should we avoid denigrating comparisons (i.e. "her way-too-huge tits remind me of a cow's udder!"), but also dogmatic, sweeping generalizations (i.e. "her tits are just WAY too big!") that imply that something is actually wrong with her (& possibly the people who like her), rather than merely not being the way some might wish. Much better to say that "I don't care for breasts that are so large that they hang down." (By the way, that's just an example; I LOVE breasts that big! LOL) Sometimes, despite the best of intentions, most of us will probably cross that line occasionally. I know I have. In the Forum, at least.

Still, I must say that the Model Card reviews, especially ALL of a card's reviews considered together, have been very helpful to me. When considering individual comments, I'm not looking for someone who will necessarily agree with my tastes but a commentator who regularly exhibits objectivity, keen powers of observation, and a good eye for detail (the latter two are not always the same). Two of a few that often match that description are EvilDave1 and Spacephantom. Sometimes I emphatically disagree with them, but their insights are valuable.

And so are yours, FalconAF. Think, consider others, review the model. Thanks!

I believe that giving subjective judgments on girls is wrong. respect