ok i was browseing the browse girls when i saw one of the girls had a check on her saying in my collection , i click download and after its done i go back to see if shes there and shes not did i miss somthing ? or does that mean she will be a trailer ?

It's probably the timezone difference. If you're talking about your Zoe card it's already in your collection according to GMT but it won't show up on your computer until midnight your time.