In principle, I do like stockings, especially hold-ups. I don't a great fan of garters, but don't mind them if the suspender belt is not too big and doesn't get in the way.
The giggest problem with VGHD and stockings for me is lack of variety in the costumes that are used with the stockings.
Another problem with stockings is the wide variation in preferences from the members. I think that many people will like stockings generally, but once you get into the detail, the preferences will differ widely.