Yeah, I understand that they want to make the downloader so that it gets the cards ASAP, and Totem's developers have made great strides in that regard. The last couple of downloaders have been very good at this. It used to be that it would stall, or not use much of the available bandwidth, but that has been overcome with the recent relases. And in the past, if I was downloading from another site or streaming video, the downloader would often stall then too.
The problem is now the opposite for me though. When I am downloading cards, I cannot download from other sites and very often, pages will not load. I d/l'd that app you recommended last night, but haven't installed it yet. If I can limit the VG_downloader to about 50% of the BW when I am doing other tasks, the problem will be solved. Like you said, most people have 10mbps connections or better, so it's not too much of a problem if the d/l uses 90% of their connection. But with DSL or cable 'lite' (like I have), 90% of the BW cripples the connection for anything else. So, I still wish that they would put a slider on the downloader so that it would be possible to limit the BW used within the GUI itself.
Cheers!