Apart from the 'women being the foundation of life, as life comes from birth etc' core, which I myself hold as true, nothing wrong with extra courtesy and respect to women in general, I wonder what the VirtuaGirls themselves think about this?
Seeying I like Burlesque as well (any option on a VirtuaBurlesque? ;)), seen as a form of art and tease as in strip tease, the opposite can also be true to keep in mind.
Striptease sells a fantasy and girls/actors/models/artists/performers perform in them, but what terminology gives more distance to the core activity? And besides not all activity is covered with alternating terminology, unless all models for example agree that pure masturbation scenes is considered a modeling activity?
I'd be happy to oblige to refer to them as models if so desired, but I would rather be teased by a girl than by the other terms implied, like burlesque and it's performers refer to their girls a lot as well with pride and they mostly refer to feminine power as well.
At least on what I see around me, girls have no weaker inclination, but as many does exist, changing terminology in settings and the like might benefit (to an extent).
The terminology used in the software has no direct impact on me, I am intrigued by the question though.
The other way around can also create more distance and objectification as one moves further from a persona, just food for thought as anything is possible with all sorts of perceptions on something, depends on the mindset one uses.
Although I can hardly find anything in the software itself besides maximum girls > maximum shows (as duo's would count for two) and girls' name > VirtuaGirls name or just name frequency, website Girls Store same as in software > VirtuaGirls store and possibly terminology used in front pages.
Age ranges between 18 and up to 39 years in my own collection and the Deskbabes website has an 18 popup on entree, that is pretty clear to me, something similar might be useful for VirtuaGirl as well?