go in your profil, privat message, blacklist

here you see the user who have place in blacklist and you can remove the black list on clic mouse on it.

Yes I looked there, and he is not showing there.... But next to his messages, the blacklist icon is gone now...

OK NM, he IMd me. whew!

I usually see the face first. A girl is attractive to me based mostly on her facial looks.
A female person means nothing to me (usually) without seeing the face.
However, every time I see a 'pretty' girl I wonder about her breasts. I am more of a 'breast-man'. Nearly all kinds of breasts look good to me.
It is easy to please me with a pair of breasts, but the face sometimes requires more work.
I think about the girl I see (for I have no idea how long) and then let it end. I NEVER act upon these thoughts.

Sammi you dont have to worry about your looks. Most of the girls on here are porn stars. When ever a girl comes along that does know how to pole dance then that is allways a plus for us.

Wow looks like a nice conversation has been going on here.
Welcome from me too Sammi. You really make me curious about that StripClub and how you and your colleagues look.
I wish Totem would give us some real strippers now and then.
Well about the theme of this thread.. I also look at the face first. That's the most important feature: face and hair style. Long flowing open hair and a beautiful face and the rest gets not that important. That was the way i chose my first cards here.
If you want have a look at the artworks section into Turbofifes Pretty faces gallery or at my Desktop Wallpapers. Both are worth a look. The artwork section is worth a look in general of course.

LOL
At this point I’m almost off topic.

When you see a pretty girl for the first time... What goes through your head?

Had I been ask this each year for the last 40 – I’m sure the answer
would have been different each time.

But this is one time when it won’t ***** to tell the truth.

Absolutely nothing goes through my head. On Purpose.
I wouldn’t dare risk a thought.
Instead – honestly truly - I listen with my eyes.

Almost always, a woman will within the first 30 seconds assess the
individual they’ve just met and “contemplate the notion.”

If my mind is truly clear of any my own thoughts - I can usually
see and hear hers.
Her demeanor will change – that covers a lot I know, but the truth is
each woman is different each will either on purpose or inadvertently
let on differently that they have in fact done the “assessment.”

At my age - that I was even considered in that light no matter how
brief is a compliment – I sure as hell wouldn’t want to miss it
bumbling over my own thoughts of how well her little sisters sweater
matches the color of her eyes.

Hey, Sammi.

What thoughts?

"Whoa, mama!"

What features at first?

Face, boobs, body shape, skin. A little latter eyes, smile, hair, hands. After a little while, i'll be focusing in all that the clothes are not covering and guessing what's like beneath the fabrics. Of course, if i saw her first while standing behind her, i'll check her ass and legs first.

What do you think about?

Calculations and more calculations. Obviously and being honest, about my chances to score. Lol.

For me it's different, maybe because I look at horny guys at work all night long...

If I see a cute guy like at the mall, I may check out his butt, but for the most part, I dont look at them sexually. It's more a mind thing for me.

Ifs only after I get to know them a little that I may find that sexual attractiveness. If they are confident, nice to me, smell good with good hygene, etc, then the attraction starts.

Now with girls... Thats different. lol Lately I have been thinking a lot about girls. I do have sexual thoughts when im near a female that I am attracted to. But thats another story. :P

What a remarkable coincidence, Sammi, and I thought it was just me!!! I also have been thinking a lot about girls lately. I as well have sexual thoughts when im near a female that im attracted to.

What possibly could be the meaning of this phenomenon??? Do you suppose it is some kind of "Out of body experience"? Or in my case, out of mind.
:)

Edit: Oh, yeah, and as long as they smell good with good hygene, the rest of those things you mention like confidence, or are nice to me, are secondary:)

Hmm ... missed this thread. Looks like everyone else saw it though!

What features do you look at first?
I have always looked at a women's eyes first - Someone once said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and I believe that.

What do you think about?
I wonder if her beauty is truly only skin deep.

Harshie

Call me weird, but the first thing that gets my attention from a woman is her hairstyle, if it's really nice, then it's the first thing that catches my eye, long flowing blonde hair or the 60's look short hairstyle does it for me :) the boobs are second lol ( hey whaddya expect, i'm a guy :)

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Sometimes I like to be in a woman's Scentual wake, delighting in the flow of her perfume, & sometimes FemEssance too, as it flows into me.
Ofttimes, I view women seen but not connected with, with an, "If I loved her-" aspect.I note her form, attitude, expressions, etc., and imagine how I would caress, relate, seduce,etc. if I were in love with her. We all know that the most "plain" women become such goddesses when we are actively loving them. A gentle voyeur's delight is to watch a woman,say, at a bus stop, a "plain" though attractive person,& think, "If I loved her, how I would enjoy climbing up her stockinged legs after her hard days work, amid the cascading, joyful erotic sighs, coming from her lips as I LickityInchCloser but enjoy every fragrant bit slowly along the way".
Meeting a woman I am looking to go on with, it is the animation of aliveness, flowing effortlessly, uncontrived, through her honest interaction with me. I love being surprised at erotic charge in "plain" wrap!

@Sammi I have spent a fair amount of time in clubs and I like to talk to the dancers and get to know them and in one particular club I have made good friends with the dancers. This is possibly due to the fact I rarely drink on these nights out and have deep conversations with them. What I look for first is a great smile and then a kind personality.